
No matter who you’re photographing, what camera you’re using or where you are… just look for these two things:
- The right Light.
- The right Moment.
Nothing else matters.



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No matter who you’re photographing, what camera you’re using or where you are… just look for these two things:
Nothing else matters.



Eric Moeller, my altMBA coach, asked me to reflect on what I’ve learned so far in the altMBA process. Because time is precious, I will be brief.
Here are my three keys to success in the altMBA.


I read every project at least 10 times and take lots of notes. Why? To understand what is being asked and how the process is supposed to challenge and change me.
I paid for the opportunity to be pushed beyond my limits — real or perceived — and digging into the project description and reading materials is where I focus my time and energy.
Additionally, if I fail to understand how the project is supposed to change me, I won’t be able to ask my classmates the right questions about their own work.


I’ve personally challenged myself to ignore obvious solutions.
altMBA was not created so I could lean on previous knowledge, experience and skills. I’m intentionally here to challenge myself with new concepts and new ways of looking at the world.
I’m searching for the unexpected answer that stretches me and is interesting to the reader. I love brainstorming the crazy, backwards and, sometimes, most obvious, simple solutions.
I don’t get a thrill out of the predictable answer.


If I’ve read the project prompt, created an interesting solution to the project (by killing the obvious) and used my observations to ship my best work… I’m not afraid.
I can take the critique, questions or feedback knowing that I shipped my best work.
I can rest easy at night.
And if my work didn’t accomplish its’ intended goal, then I missed something and need to reconsider my assumptions, communication or the worldview of the audience.

It’s been a wild ride and the second half is already here. Let’s go!

Today begins a new career chapter and just recently I realized how full of a year it has been:
My divorce was finalized (and I got a tattoo the same day to remember what I learned in the process).
Established a new home and tried to regain a sense of normalcy.
My grandmother passed away.
Oscar, my son, turned 6 years old.
Photographed Night Beds during a studio visit.
Took a weekend adventure to see my friend Liz in Atlanta.
Saw WELD open and Nashville’s strong community continue to grow.
Started navigating the dating world.
Attended so many Nashville Sounds baseball games with Oscar.
Witnessed two friends successfully adopt their first child.
Drank Soylent for 3 months.
Vacationed with family in Michigan and Iowa.
Gave up navigating the dating world.
Heavily played Tame Impala’s album ‘Currents.’
Oscar started 1st grade.
Read a great interview with Ian MacKaye of Minor Threat/Fugazi/Dischord Records.
Attended my first Plywood Presents conference in Atlanta.
Intentionally began taking more risks, being vulnerable and generous, and staying true to myself.
Started writing.
Adopted an awesome puppy.
Attended a great Men’s Retreat with my church.
Applied to the altMBA program.
Unexpectedly met an amazing woman.
Saw C H R I S O L U X speak at Nashville Creative Mornings.
Was accepted into the altMBA program, January 2016 session.
Saw Sufjan Stevens live in concert for the first time.
Fell in love.
Had a weekend adventure to Atlanta with my love and her kids.
Was laid off from my job of 8 years.
Interviewed for a new job.
Decompressed with family over the holidays.
Introduced Oscar to Star Wars IV, V, and VI.
Started a Moment Calendar, chronicling at least one memory from each day.
Picked up my camera again.
Started altMBA.
Was offered — and accepted — a new job.
And yesterday, January 20, 2016, was my last day at my former employer.
I have been so blessed by the people of Nashville. This city has truly become my home.
To the friends, family, coworkers, acquaintances and strangers who have come alongside me during such a wild and wonderful year — thank you. You have truly given me an endless supply of hope, encouragement and support to see the beauty in each day.
In 2016 I will be stretched and challenged like never before — yet also more intentional, purposeful and fulfilled.
I am both excited and scared, which is giving me an undeniable energy to dance with my fear and tackle the challenges I want to face.
“I have been bent and broken, but — I hope — into a better shape.” ― Charles Dickens, Great Expectations

The reality is that work is long, hard and can consume you.
So make sure it’s the kind of work you want to do, work that changes you into a better person, and work that makes an impact in the world that you wholeheartedly believe will make it a better place.
Last weekend I took a roadtrip with my girlfriend and her two boys. As our trip began I turned to them and said with some enthusiasm…
“Are you ready for a wild ride – a crazy adventure?!? You in?”
They sheepishly responded and eventually agreed that they were on board.
Little did we know, the weekend WAS an adventure.
That weekend we expected an adventure and clearly made one happen. And I learned this important lesson: YOU EXPERIENCE WHAT YOU EXPECT. If I expect my day to be dull, dreary and a disappointment — guess what kind of day it will be? A dull, dreary, not fun day.
“Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt
I had my share of not fun days this year. My divorce was finalized, time with my son was drastically reduced, and I struggled with feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. I expected hard, not fun days and that’s exactly what I got.
But over the past 3 months my approach to life has shifted. Today, I am ready for an adventure. I worry less when my plans get detoured. I embrace risk. I am more vulnerable with everyone around me. And I am enjoying being myself more and more — striving to live simply, love boldly and do work that matters.

Now I wake up ready for a wild ride, a crazy adventure full of love, challenges, detours, and laughter… and that’s exactly what I’ve experienced.
Let’s see what tomorrow brings.
I was given a 60-day notice from my employer that my position was being eliminated. Yes, I was laid off.
After commiserating with those on my team who also experienced the same fate…
While you never want to be the one laid off, today reminded me that God has richly blessed me. I have food, shelter, family, friends and so much more.
And no matter what happens after yesterday, I am content and full of gratitude.
I recently realized I’ve been doing this thing called work for 20 years. It started with a snow shovel at the age of 14 and has included roles as a dishwasher, tutor, hotel front desk, video production assistant, director of communications, photographer, and, now, art buyer/producer.
In stints both brief (Panera, one day) and long (Griffin, 8 years and still going), I’ve learned a handful of things on my journey that I’d like to share.

You can thank me later.
Your project will never go according to plan. You can bank on it. But when you expect the unexpected you’ll be more prepared when challenging circumstances do occur. The challenges themselves will be less likely to throw you off.
The sooner you can think clearly, the faster you’ll start brainstorming how to overcome those new challenges.
“I always expect unexpected challenges. Boxing is not an easy sport.” — Sugar Ray Leonard
It’s important to lend your support, energy, and enthusiam to the other people on your team. One of the best ways to show support is to simply ask, “How can I help?”
Questions may need answers or someone might be hungry but on a tight deadline. Go find the answers, pickup lunch, and support them in anyway possible.
“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.” — Albert Schweitzer
Assumptions will cause you unnecessary anxiety and kill your performance. If you have questions or concerns, ask. Otherwise, just do the work.
“Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only empties today of its strength.” — Charles Spurgeon
Read books, blogs, and newsletters. Watch Youtube tutorials, enroll in Skillshare classes, experiment with new software, and follow some of the best thinkers and doers on Twitter. Today you can learn anything online.
For example, an interesting tweet can point to a captivating TED Talk where the speaker references a great book. In that book the author has taken decades of experience and powerfully summarizes the lessons she has learned. In less than two minutes I can buy that book on Amazon.com and start reading. Amazing.
IMPORTANT: No one is going to push you to learn; there has to be a drive from within. In order to remain relevant to your work, you need to remain interested and invested in learning. The notion that one can earn a college degree, coast at work for 40 years, and then retire is dead.
“In times of change learners inherit the earth; while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.” — Eric Hoffer
I make mistakes daily and the sooner I realize and admit my mistakes, the sooner I can make a fix and the team can move on.
Imagine a leader who couldn’t (or wouldn’t) admit their mistakes. Eventually, the team would lose confidence in them because either the leader is blind to their mistakes or too full of pride. Either is a dangerous situation.
“Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them.” — Bruce Lee
Obsessively keep track about how to improve your process and output the next time. Consult those notes often. Evernote has been the best option for me to keep all my notes accessible and searchable.
“I gotta take notes when things occur to me.”— Jeff Bridges
When focused and in the moment, you work smarter. When distracted by the past or future, you limit the brain power available to you for the present moment, which handicaps you from making the best decisions now.
Don’t spend your time and energy obsessing over the past or future. Why? Because you can’t do a damn thing about it.
“Most humans are never fully present in the now, because unconsciously they believe tha tthe next moment must be more important than this one. But then you miss your whole life, which is never not now.” — Eckhart Tolle
Gain a reputation as someone who over delivers on every project. If you only do the minimum, don’t expect better opportunities.
“The reason a lot of people do not recognize opportunity is because it usually goes around wearing overalls looking like hard work.” — Thomas Edison
Almost daily I find people and companies I highly respect using dead or outdated links. Did you try blogging but gave it up three years ago? Then remove the link from your website. I’d rather not see a blog than a rarely updated one.
Randomly test a few links every day on your personal and company websites and social accounts. If you spot something that doesn’t look right, speak up.
Six months ago today I drove from Nashville to the Chicago suburbs to see my Grandmother. She was on her deathbed but hadn’t acknowledged these were her last days. I pulled into the parking lot late that night, entered the medical facility, and approached her room quietly.
Cancer was ravaging her body. Her hair was gone, she had trouble hearing, and she wasn’t interested in food. But when I walked into her room that night her eyes filled with joy and delight. She smiled at me like only a grandmother could and she was still full of jokes, laughter and strong opinions. As my uncle showed her old photos, it jogged her memory and she told us stories until she was tired.
Later that night she looked me in the eyes and said, “Pray for me, I’m dying.”
“I know, Grandma. I will and I love you.”
Six days later she passed away. I cried a lot those weeks and again more recently as I listened to the 20 minutes of audio I recorded at her side. That weekend she taught me the greatest gift you can give someone you love is to be next to them, even when you can’t comprehend their pain and agony.
